DDT - Daily De-Tox

Friends tell you the truth. Sometimes this truth is a bit bitter but that's why they are friends. The texts themselves are meant to make the ego lose some ground: let it go! Do it... NOW!

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C. control

"Reader! This is how I am. I want to be in control! Of everything. And everyone. At any time. Always on top of it! Always be there before anyone else. Seen that, done that. No one can tell me anything. I was already there, I have seen it. WHY is the world not learning from my amazing experiences? Why do they still continue their crazy path? I could tell them a thing or two about control! What are they looking for? Here I am. - - And so one . . . Yes, the controllers. They are really not the most likeable species in this world. Funny enough, and against the image they try to present they are most of the times NOT in control. ONLY if life is joking for a little while and provides circumstances which allow the wannabe controller to imagine HIMSELF as the cause of these circumstances he is in control. Or she, since this is one of those amazing trans -gendering issues: men and women do it differently but they both do it. Controlling. -'I have a headache!' says one. No control. I have pain in my intestines . . .no control. A doctor who then tells you things you indeed cannot control at all, has to be consulted. My husband left me. No control. My daughter is lesbian and wants to marry her friend. No control. Somebody hit my car in the morning. No control. . .Ok ok, understood, but what CAN we do? For example letting go of all control and becoming influential. How about having a lot of influence on your life and maybe even on your environment by dropping all controlling? How would that be? You cannot control that? Right you are! Just drop your energy-wasting control system . . . just let it go . ."