DDT - Daily De-Tox

Friends tell you the truth. Sometimes this truth is a bit bitter but that's why they are friends. The texts themselves are meant to make the ego lose some ground: let it go! Do it... NOW!

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I. incompetent

"Reader! Did you not learn it? How could you have missed that ultra important lesson? You are not stupid nor are you sick: so why did you not get this insight which we all had to learn and which we all understood? Did you take a day off from life at that particular drill day? - Ok, Reader, what are we talking about here? Incompetence and the feelings it may raise when stated by an authority person, your boss for example. You are the boss? Then your wife. You are female? Then it's probably a child or the neighbor. Anyway, one way or the other, buttons get pressed when our knowledgeable execution of a task is challenged. Somehow we are supposed to function according to someone's guideline. And since we usually subtly submit in following those marked ways we missed the chance to become a real competence in our own way. And competent about our own way. Because who could decide for you what you want? Funny enough, nobody criticizes anybody for incompetence in: love, relaxation, communication, mediation, meditation, gentleness etc. That's private. - private? Does it mean people are really tolerant here? Well, let's say they may not want to be reminded of their own flaws in those mentioned areas. That is how all the misery seems to be accumulated. How about making the decision to become a real competence in your inner life? And letting go of any 'competent' advice from outside? . . . just let it go . ."